---
title: Improvement Era
description: Monthly periodical of the Mormon church, 1897 onward. This library holds the issues of November 1897 to December 1930.
authors:
  - Merrill, Albert M.
collections:
  - periodicals
tags:
  - magazine
  - improvement-era
periodical: Improvement Era
volume: 11
number: 1
published: 1907-11
publisher: Young Men’s Mutual Improvement Associations
publisher_place: Salt Lake City
language: en
type: magazine
reference: 'Albert M. Merrill, "“Mother and Sister Might Hear”," *Improvement Era* 11, no. 1 (November 1907): 52–54.'
source:
  url: https://archive.org/details/improvementera1101unse
  transcription: Transcribed from the Internet Archive scan of each issue (the item for each issue is named in the issue's own source); unnumbered advertising leaves are omitted, printed page numbers are kept as page markers.
  identifier: improvementera1101unse
start_page: 52
end_page: 54
rights:
  status: public-domain
  basis: US publication 1930 or earlier (published 1907-11)
  source: https://archive.org/details/improvementera1101unse
  publication_year: 1907
  note: The Internet Archive item metadata carries a blanket "© Copyright by Intellectual Reserve, Inc." notice. The library owner judged it inapplicable because this issue was published in 1907, before 1931; a scan-level notice does not restore copyright.
---

# “Mother and Sister Might Hear”

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"MOTHER AND SISTER MIGHT HEAR."
BY PROF. ALBERT M. MERRILL, OF THE CASSIA STAKE ACADEMY.
The Junior boys will, doubtlessly, draw many profitable lessons
this year from the reading of Tom Brown's School Days.
Tom is not represented as an ideal boy, nor as one of the
'
'goody-goody" kind. He is just an ordinary boy, full of life and
energy; he has plenty of faults, but these are fairly offset by good
strong points. He is so perfectly natural, so resourceful, so viva-
cious, and yet so kind-hearted, so generous, and true, that all -boys
must, perforce, admire him.
One of the satisfying things about his biography is that the
training and circumstances of his early years bear fruit throughout
his life. Like most boys, he could not forget the tender religious
training of a loving mother, nor yet the occasional but pointed in-
structions of the father. We feel sure that his father's last words
of admonition when he left London, at the tender age of nine
years, to enter Rugby, not only rang in his ears in the stage coach
that morning, but that they recurred to him on many trying oc-
casions afterward. They are words that can well afford to be
printed in gold and held before the eyes of Latter-day Saint boys,
or better still, engraved in their hearts where they may act as
silent monitors in hours of need.
After considering well and long what he could best say in
parting, Mr. Brown gave utterance to the following:
Tom, my boy, remember you are going at your own earnest request, to be
chucked into this great school, like a young bear with all your troubles before you
— earlier than we should have sent you, perhaps. If schools are what they were
in my time, you'll see a great many cruel blackguard things done, and hear a deal
of foul, bad talk. But never fear. You tell the truth, keep a brave and kind

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"MOTHER AND SISTER MIGHT HEAR." 53
heart, and never listen to or say anything you wouldn't have your mother and
sister hear, and you'll never feel ashamed to come home, or we to see you.
What splendid counsel this, for every boy to receive and live
by. It constitutes a little religion all by itself, "pure and un-
dented :" Tell the truth, keep a brave and kind heart, and never
hsten to or say anything you wouldn't have your mother and sister
hear, and you'll never jeel ashamed to come home, or we to see you.
A boy that will do those things will find that he is in the way
of becoming a good, clean, honorable man — a faithful Latter-day
Saint. A boy that will keep his ears closed to filthy and obscene
stories, and will guard his tongue from uttering an unclean word,
— a word that his m >ther and his sister might not hear — will find
that he has conceived within him a power for righteousness.
It is clean boys that make clean men. We have often been
led to admire the clean strain that ran through the character of
President Ulysses S. Grant. A number of incidents are related
of him. in his attitude toward purity of thought. On one occasion,
he was seated in the Senate clumber, surrounded by a number of
prominent men. It was a recess period, and they were conversing and
telling stories. A Senator thought to tell a story, which a mother
or a sister might not hear, and casting his eyes about the gallery
began, "As there are. no ladies present," when he was suddenly
interrupted by the President with, "But there are gentlemen
present, and you'll please not tell that story here."
George W. Childs wrote of Grant, "A great trait of Grant's
character was his purity. I never heard him express an impure
thought, or make an indelicate allusion in any way or shape. There
is nothing I ever heard him say that could not be repeated in the
presence of women."
The boys of the Latter-day Saints should live so that such a
remark might be truthfully made of every one of them.
Oakley, Idaho.

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ANTHONY W. IVINS.
Chosen, sustained and ordained, October 6, 1907, a member of the
Quorum of Twelve Apostles.
